They say that even your own shadow leaves you in the dark and what makes you think that the person you are attached to will always be by your side? Come let’s see whether you blindly have to follow your emotions or control them at times. Let’s see if we have to be too attached to a person or not. When I say too attached it can be anyone, the person you love, your best friend, or anyone in that matter. What makes me say this is, In our life, there might be some instances where we meet someone gel up very well and then get so close that we start sharing everything with them. Of Course, it’s a great feeling which you’d experience, you might feel lucky to have a person like them and indeed you are. Everyone needs someone to hear their everyday story, someone to hear out their feelings, share their fun time, and so on because humans are social animals. We need somebody by our side. If a person is not interacting with anyone and letting out what’s inside him then he might end up in deep mental trouble.
One thing to ask yourself is how close can one be with someone? So close that you are stupid enough that you start loving them? Or so close that you are ready to do anything for them? I am saying this because often when someone gets close to a person they start expecting too much from them, Which usually ends up hurting one. There might be a lot of reasons for the pain but or why it didn't turn out that good but who do you think is to blame here? In the current generation, I think having a best friend is mandatory. I don’t know the exact reason why it is so but I’m sure you all can relate to it. It's good actually as I said earlier but even our skin color doesn’t remain the same and Do you think that human personality will remain the same, It’s not always the Human personality, there might be some other reasons, Let me give you my example, I had a best friend during my school days, We shared everything and our bond was so strong that we always said no matter what we’ll never separate. But now we rarely talk. Why is it so? Did we fight? No. The reason is as we grew our responsibilities increased and at the same time we were supposed to be at different places and within no time our bond faded. Now, what if I was too attached to that bond? Wouldn’t that have ruined my mental state? It might have taken my mind off track. Similarly, different relationships will have different reasons, but one thing is that it will break one or the other day. Sometimes it is death that will break your relationship with your loved ones. The only thing is we must be strong enough to face it and not get too attached to anything or anyone.